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you are so GORGEOUS.
it’s so hard for me to look myself in the face. it’s so hard to fight the urges to use camera angles and careful positioning to hide the fatness of my face and double chin.
it feels shitty that my self-documentation is so warped by internalized fat hate. time to try to take my body back. i’m so tired of erasing myself.
i want to know what i look like.
Rolls-Royce !
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love it love it love it
@PRguitarman #Soccer
The majesty encapsulated in this image has slain me.
New Blog Post. I cut off my hair and wear exclusively animal themed clothing. No one is surprised.
OMG BB ILYSM I CAN’T WAIT FOR BRUNCH THIS WEEKEND <3 - hcue
Yesterday I had a really, really good hair and coat day.
Coats like this are a huge factor in why winter is my favorite.
Can I just say that I LOVE WHEN FATTIES WEAR THINGS LIKE THIS?
Like, I always used to hate wearing over-sized things because I was always told that I look like I’m “wearing a tent” or “omg that’s basically a muumuu, how unflattering” and NO, it’s fucking not. It’s gorgeous.
Also, THOSE FUCKING SHOES AND THAT HAT AND THAT HAIR. I have no words.
Sorry, excuse my splooge.
PRACTICE MAKES
PERFECTBREATHING EASYSo my super dope homechick Ray sent me this amazing video. This fierce big boy is giving me EVERYTHING. Attitude, Confidence and Endurance.
These three things are SOOO important and often times as bigger dancers we are the ones who struggle with endurance. I’ll be the first one to tell you I struggle with faster dances. It’s hard for me to keep up and still dance with energy….which then often leads to lack of confidence. I used to get so frustrated with myself and often times get upset.
I’ve learned the best thing to do is practice, like full out, let it out, scream and shout practice.
As a big dancer you may have to practice more than others not because you don’t have the choreo down, rather to build your stamina. I cannot tell you how many times in college I almost felt like I was passing out after a dance because I was so out of breathe. I’ve learned that practicing FULL OUT a couple times a week really helps these days. My endurance is high and my endorphins are up, it’s a great feeling!! So keep pushing big dancers, we’ve already proved we can be hot, let’s show the world how we can move!!!!
You better werk!!!! <333!!
GET IT!!!
I can’t even walk in heels, much less dance. GET IT BABE
You better DO. IT.
skype dinner date with my glittercat outfit<3
can I marry your outfit or
Wearing a green spot dress with my elephant pendant and bee cuff to my sister’s baby shower.
