For real, I know what you mean.
I am not out to minimize anyone’s pain or experiences. Obviously people have a right to get butthurt over hurtful body shaming comments, in any context. All bodies are good bodies and no body deserves to put up with hate.
But I can still acknowledge all of that and also fight fat oppression as a real legit thing that is built into the structure of our society.
The last thing I want to do is exclude anyone. I hope I am understood.