No one should ever be expected to just “get over” anything. Because it’s just not that simple. It’s not even really possible. Who has the ability to get over something at will? I’d like to know.
Everyone should have a space to submit photos of and talk about their bodies, regardless of size. This space encourages submissions from everyone.
The only thing that distinguishes a fat body from a thin or “fit” body is privilege. A fat person’s feelings or thoughts are no more valid or true than a thin person’s, or vice versa.
It is just an accepted fact that “thin” or “fit” bodies are more societally and culturally excepted over “fat” bodies and it’s a good thing to acknowledge this. But again, this privilege is not personal. It is a privilege that has been blessed upon the “thin and fit” in our society through perpetuating fat phobia, hate, and discrimination, among many other things.
I’ve got a whole tag regarding thin privilege that contains more extensive content about what all of this means. I hope I was able to help answer your questions.